Men,
I am recognizing an alarming trend: the enemy is actively wooing men into isolation. This isn't happening through obvious attacks necessarily, instead it is through busyness, distraction, comfort, and the lie that we’re fine on our own. God never designed men to walk alone, and I’m convinced we will not love and lead well in isolation. Scripture is clear that isolation is dangerous. “Whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire; he breaks out against all sound judgment” (Proverbs 18:1). Simply stated, men who walk alone are far more vulnerable to the snare of the devil.
Back in October, we made a commitment together. We said we believed that when men love and lead well, everyone flourishes. That vision was never about filling a room. It was about men walking with men, opening the Word, praying, being honest, and growing together in Christ. I want you to hear this clearly: I’m not writing to guilt or pressure anyone. I just want to remind you who you are in Christ, and invite you to take your walk seriously... not just on Sundays but in community with other men.
As we finish Revelation on Tuesday nights, I’ve been praying through the future of our men’s ministry. Since our ALL IN commitment in October, midweek group participation has been cut in half (both men and women). I don’t fully understand why, but I do know this matters and it’s worth addressing.
Beginning in February, I’m planning for us to walk through The Man for the Day: Answering the Call to Godly Manhood by J. Josh Smith together. I’m looking for men who are serious about following Jesus to commit to Tuesday nights at 5:45pm at the church campus. This gives you time to adjust your schedule, get the book, and prioritize community. If that time, day, or location doesn’t work for you, tell me. I care more about discipling men than protecting a schedule.
After the New Year, all midweek activities will meet at the same time, with childcare provided at the church. We’re removing barriers and making space for people to step in. I know this costs something. I know we all have work, families, responsibilities, and full calendars. But following Jesus has always required intentional sacrifice. I care deeply about you, and I truly believe that time spent with other godly men will shape us into better men.
You are not meant to do life alone. And the mission God has given us cannot be carried alone. My prayer is that we would press into who God has already called us to be: men who love and lead well for the good of our families, our church, and our city. Let me know if you would like me to pre-order you a copy of the book or if you have any questions/concerns. I am praying for you, and rooting for you as you run the race with endurance.
Grace & peace,
TW
